"No Man is an Island." It's easy if not socially promoted on how independent we are or should be. But we are always within our relationships. Our happiness and sadness reflects our relationships. Never mind the court system, the past scars, our future desires and more. Things carry weight and debt goes a long way. Are you looking to make your marriage better or perhaps as best it can to be settled in a civil fashion? Relationships require so many wide sources of energy. And no one likes to waste time or resources on a failed relationship. Call me if you're looking for relationship advice. While blood may be thicker than water, it is still a poor story to treat yourself harshly.